The scriptural record of the first marriage in Genesis 2:18–25 includes at least six principles which establish a divine pattern. (not CA marriage) EZER -In the choice of your mate, involve the Lord by applying every bit of doctrine you know to your choice of a lifetime mate. By all means, make this subject a part of your prayer life, as well. Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

Deuteronomy 33:29 (NASB95) 29 “Blessed are you, O Israel; Who is like you, a people saved by the Lord, Who is the shield of your help And the sword of your majesty! So your enemies will cringe before you, And you will tread upon their high places.” Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

Deuteronomy 33:29 (NASB95) 29 “Blessed are you, O Israel; Who is like you, a people saved by the Lord, Who is the shield of your help And the sword of your majesty! So your enemies will cringe before you, And you will tread upon their high places.” Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

The scriptural record of the first marriage in Genesis 2:18–25 includes at least six principles which establish a divine pattern. (not CA marriage) בנה -In the choice of your mate, involve the Lord by applying every bit of doctrine you know to your choice of a lifetime mate. By all means, make this subject a part of your prayer life, as well. Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

BANA The scriptural record of the first marriage in Genesis 2:18–25 includes at least six principles which establish a divine pattern. (not CA marriage) בנה -In the choice of your mate, involve the Lord by applying every bit of doctrine you know to your choice of a lifetime mate. By all means, make this subject a part of your prayer life, as well. Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

The scriptural record of the first marriage in Genesis 2:18–25 includes at least six principles which establish a divine pattern. (not CA marriage) -In the choice of your mate, involve the Lord by applying every bit of doctrine you know to your choice of a lifetime mate. By all means, make this subject a part of your prayer life, as well. Even though, obviously, your volition is involved, don’t make this an emotional decision by leaving your thinking behind! Of all times in your life, this is a time when you need to be doing a lot of thinking and applying those doctrinal norms and standards you have established. Because we all tend to be quite emotional when we find that love of the lifetime, this is when you really need to be aware of God guidance! He knows the future, you don’t! -Marriage is meant to be a system of companionship and unity. It must be a co-operative venture. Amos appropriately asks, “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” (Amos 3:3). Applied to marriage, the answer to this question is decidely “no.” Eve was created as Adam’s counterpart, as his complement. One obvious application of this: don’t marry an unbeliever. It is of supreme importance that there be unity of faith. To marry a nonbeliever is to ask for trouble. It violates a principle established in Eden. -Marriage as originally planned involved one man and one woman. Polygamy was not God’s idea for successful marriage. Having more than one wife was introduced because of man’s sinful nature, his own self-will, and his tendency to leave God out of his plans. Wherever it was practiced, it created problems that led to unhappiness, jealousy, and many other difficulties. A man is to be “one flesh” with one woman. Do I need to apply the obvious application to so called “homosexual marriage!” Marriage involves physical union. Since that first marriage in the Garden, God’s plan for husband and wife has included this important relationship (Gen 1:28; Prov 5:18–20). In some mysteriously (?) wonderful way, it is that means whereby God says man and woman “become one flesh.” 1 Cor 6:15–16 makes it pretty clear that lovemaking is referred to here. That passage talks about becoming one flesh with a prostitute! Marriage involves a new social unit. To be successfully married, both man and woman must leave father and mother and establish a new home (Gen 2:24). In fact, it is the parents’ responsibility to help prepare their children for the time when they are to break home ties and establish a new dependency. Marriage is for keeps. Though God says nothing specifically in Genesis 2:18–25 regarding the possibility of separation (sin had not yet entered the race), the term “shall cleave” strongly implies that this union was lifelong. Jesus clarified this: “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matt 19:6). Dallas Theological Seminary. (1969; 2002). Bibliotheca Sacra Volume 126 (Vol. 126, Page 17-18). Dallas Theological Seminary.

Can two walk together except that they be agreed? Amos 3:3

Dispensations: The Divine Blueprint of History Lesson 11 Marriage Presented by Pastor Jim Oliver to Teleios Bible Church http://home.comcast.net/~jimoliverministries/ Genesis 2: 20-25, Deuteronomy 33:29,

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Indeed, has God said, ‘You shall not eat from any tree of the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent, “From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat; but from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat from it or touch it, or you will die.’” The serpent said to the woman, “You surely will not die!” For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was desirable to make one wise, she took from its fruit and ate; and she gave also to her husband with her, and he ate. Genesis 3:1ff

“Be filled with the Spirit....” Eph 5:18 Name your sins to God the Father. Opening Prayer Dispensations: The Divine Blueprint of History

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 4 Outline Dispensations Defined Categorical Outline of the Dispensations The Age of Gentiles Era of Positive Volition Institution of Marriage Era of Negative Volition Introduction Negative Volition in a State of Perfection Divine Prohibition Narrative of the Fall Theocentric

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 5 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. עֶ֫זֶר EZER: helper, assistant, strength There is none like the God of Jeshurun, Who rides the heavens to your help, And through the skies in His majesty.

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 6 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. עֶ֫זֶר EZER: helper, assistant, strength Blessed are you, O Israel; Who is like you, a people saved by the Lord, Who is the shield of your help And the sword of your majesty! So your enemies will cringe before you, And you will tread upon their high places. Deuteronomy 33:29

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 7 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. Corresponding to him…

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 8 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place.

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 9 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. The Lord God fashioned God designed the woman around the rib… בנה BANA

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 10 Era of Positive Volition The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage “…but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. The Lord God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. The man said, ‘This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.’ For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. Genesis 2:20-25

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 11 Era of Positive Volition Principles of Marriage: Apply Your Spiritual Life The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage Can two walk together except that they be agreed? Amos 3:3

Era of Positive Volition Principles of Marriage: Apply Your Spiritual Life Marry a Believer One Man – One Woman Involves the Physical Union The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “The two shall become one flesh.” 1 Corinthians 6:15–16 (NASB95)

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 13 Era of Positive Volition Principles of Marriage: Apply Your Spiritual Life Marry a Believer One Man – One Woman Involves the Physical Union It is a social unit. Marriage is Permanent The Age of Gentiles Institution of Marriage

2004 The Divine Blueprint of History 14 Era of Negative Volition The Age of Gentiles