Tips To Make A Great Date In The First 10 Minutes

The first ten minutes of any date are the most crucial. This dictates whether there is a spark between you, whether the date will be fun and most importantly, whether or not there will be a second date. Here are some things you can do to ensure a great date in the first 10 minutes.

Go Into It With Hopeful State Of Mind- No, this doesn't mean go into your date thinking, "I hope he likes me," we want you to go into it thinking, "I hope I like him." When you're focusing on him liking you, you're constantly trying to read his mind, instead of what you should really be focusing on, which is how you feel about being with him.

Find Three Things You Like About Him- Sometimes it's hard to focus on the positive when all you can think about are the negatives. You have to fight that urge and find the things you DO like about him. Maybe you like his smile, his sense of humor, or his style. What do you like about him?

Put Yourself In His Shoes- Just like you, he has fears and insecurities too. So be kind and empathetic when on your date. Even if you already know you're not interested in seeing him again, let him leave feeling good about himself, don't put him down based on your judgements.

Extend A Sincere Compliment- Again, he's nervous too, so help put his mind at ease a bit by giving him a sincere compliment. It will really help him feel comfortable with you and open up. And, it's just a nice thing to do.

Appreciate The Practice- Even if the date isn't so great, appreciate the practice you get from it. Every date, failed or not, brings you one step closer to meeting the right one. You've gotten the chance to learn more about dating, men and even more about yourself. Keep a dating journal to jot down a few things you've learned from each dating experience. There's no such things as a wasted date.

Know What To Ask- You always want to put your best foot forward and stay positive when on a date. With that being said, it's very important to stay away from asking questions that could take a negative turn, such as probing him about how the dating scene has been treating him lately.

Shoot for questions that will evoke a positive conversation.   Always remember these important things when heading out on a date. Find out more about two of us service and two of us dating service here: www.twoofusdatingservice.com