What did I learn…

I learned that sometimes it is easier to share my soul with the whole world than it is to share it with someone intimate.

I learned that aspiring toward my desires takes true commitment and, a solid belief that my goals have legitimacy.

I learned that asking for understanding is sometimes impossible, but giving understanding is not.

I learned that trying to prepare others for what lies ahead, may confuse their innocence and slow down their progress.

I learned that saying no to someone else, even when they object can help them learn to say no in their own lives, when need be.

I learned that wanting and needing are hard to separate, but the difference is of great importance.

I learned that I am stronger than I thought I was, and that I need both strength and insight to function.

I learned that I will not always feel positive, but that, my down days give me perspective.

I learned that patience takes self-discipline, but its rewards are immense.

I learned that letting someone else’s laughter reach my heart is just as rewarding as saying something to make them laugh.

I learned that laughing after making a mistake Does not erase its valuable lesson.

I learned that appreciation of others, of life and of challenges Causes each day to be full and fruitful.

I learned that it is good to expect better of one’s self; but, not so good to stress over petty details.

I learned that living is not one huge moment of joy

It is the travel, and the unravel - the discovery of life, That builds foundations for joy and for loving and living.

Text: N.O. Tate Images: William Whitaker Music: Billie Holliday - Solitude Slideshow: honeycita2000 Valparaíso, July, 2006 1st edition, July 2009